I'm out.

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  1. ZachB

    ZachB Giant Squid

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    I wonder sometimes why I'm single. Then I sit back, drink some Jack, watch my tank and relax and it all becomes clear.

    When I read stuff like this it blows my mind how crazy people can be. If she bleached your tank, that's just childish and immature. She should have talked to you if she had issues. Not just kill the tank and skip out. Bummer man..
     
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  2. cuttingras

    cuttingras Starving Artist :)

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    He didn't say she did that. He said he woke up and one of his tanks was almost all dead.
    If it was her, why didn't she kill all of them?
     
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  3. ZachB

    ZachB Giant Squid

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    True that.
     
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  4. PackLeader

    PackLeader Giant Squid

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    Don't get rid of all the tanks dude. I know what you're thinking right now, but the tanks aren't why she left. If you got rid of them yesterday she would still be gone later down the road. Whats meant to be is meant to be, and what isn't isn't.
    And I know you, and I know you're personal dreams. You and tanks are meant to be ;)
    And heck, maybe later down the road, you'll have a women that would be home dosing Prime or posting on the ASAP thread for you when you get home from the walk after a bad tank ;)
     
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  5. cuttingras

    cuttingras Starving Artist :)

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    Maybe you need another Jack, Zack..;):p:beer2::lol:
     
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  6. ZachB

    ZachB Giant Squid

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    :laughings
     
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  7. 10acrewoods

    10acrewoods Fire Goby

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    Don't loose two loves in one day. I know life can throw some curve balls but you have to do what you desire. I would keep the tanks and learn from this. I have a wonderfull wife that understand all my crazy hobbies, well maybe not understand but she puts up with it. If I had to go through the stress of worrying about her leaving all the time I couldn't do it. Some times you have to look at the bright side of things maybe this was for the best and maybe you will find someone that has the same passions as you or puts up with them. Sorry there is a kid involved but it is better to be happy then stuck and sad. What ever you decide just follow your heart and be true to yourself. O yea fish may die but they will never leave you. good luck.
     
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  8. AcansUnlimited

    AcansUnlimited Plankton

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    sorry for your loss , don't get rid of you stuff I did and 5 years and 2 kids later here I am back with the fish. and if your girls pregnant its the hormones she will come back.lol just sleep on it dude. good luck
     
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  9. shipbear

    shipbear Bubble Tip Anemone

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    Starting over is hard to do, I've been there.. More then once...
    But a year from now.. Things will be beautiful again..

    Keep 2 tanks, Do you dive and get your own stuff..??

    Please yourself first...

    Good Luck, Larry
     
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  10. noobie

    noobie Astrea Snail

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    Here's what to do: Be a happy bachelor and, if your lucky, find someone that shares your interest.

    You will argue over what coral or fish to buy, but she'll never harm her tank. :)
     
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