Guys?

Yea it will all work out in the end im sure. I just wanted to keep everything peaceful at work. I didn't want to be harsh and have him hate me..

 

I can go through some big mental and physical swings with my BP meds and that's a big part of what I bring to my relationships, with friends, and my girlfriend. That's just my life (I don't know a thing about your situation and am not trying to say much about it, just saying how it is for me). I don't blame the meds, but I know they do affect things, sorta like I don't drive after I take them. I'm not saying date the guy, but I do think he offers you some benefit as a friend and as long as he's not hitting on you and making you feel uncomfortable what's the big deal if he likes you more than you like him? I think the big issue is that he's not respecting what you are saying even as a friend. I think I would tell him that you need him to respect what your trying to tell him if he wants to show you that he truly is your friend and point out that if he can't hear what your saying and respect you as a friend than how could it ever be possible to progress even if you did like him, but restate that is not want you are looking for right now.

 

Thanks I think that sounds like a good plan, I dont mind that he likes me, your right it is just that I have told him before and he does continue to hit on me and make me feel uncomfortable... so I will just make it super crystal clear and leave no doubts..

 

hi this will always happen while your market value holds out till 30 plus, ssooooooooooo you need to learn skills ,1 come on's and put off's, 2 some people cannot read a red light from a green light, 3 maybe you are using green light's to boost your insecurity,4 when he is talking to you move your hand to cover your nose and mouth as if he has bad breath do this every time and you will destroy any further advances, 5 look for any signs of odd body language and mirror it etc etc . send me his mobile lol

 

I think this has gone on long enough. The repeated "cursing" and inappropriate posts are not what 3Reef wants on it's forums. I suggest that you keep that in mind when it comes to future posts.