Guys?

I know it doesnt matter that I DID or whatever but I just want him to understand where im coming from when I say im not really ready right now for anything like that I feel totally content being alone. And I don't like him LIKE that... so I guess i'll go with B lol and just stick to the friends but I know he will persist and then it makes it hard to just ignore him. I feel so bad just ignoring people. And he's MORE than willing to wait which is what scares me.

 

Well... this is complicated. I really dont like hurting people and he has been SO nice to me and he has been a good friend and I do care what he feels I in no way want to make him feel bad, I don't like him in that way where I would want to kiss him or date him, but I do think he is a good person and doesn't deserve to just be written off and told I dont like you go away because he has been so nice to me. And I dont like to make others feel bad, because I know how that feels.

 

oh jeez...

 

I know I Know im lame... but I just hate those evil girls who are snotty and think they are better than everyone else and think they are so freakin pretty and act like that are better than everyone else, I just don't wanna be like that I like to give guys their fair chance. And I would if I wasn't in the situation im in right now.. im just not ready to deal with that I have a lot of other stuff goin on and so im just trying to be as nice as possible.

 

i would only talk to him at work if it was work related... i means its work, right? lol....I also wouldn't be up texting him so late....that just shows that your staying up to talk to him on his account. im a guy, and thats what i think about it, but i have been with the same girl for 6 years, maybe im a little out of the loop.

 

nice nice 6 years is awesome. And im always up this late, he usually is the one who ends the convo cuz he's going to sleep so I woudlnt think he thinks that haha but who knows.. and our work... is like you dont have to talk about work related stuff but I dont even work in the same room as him so thats not a problem really.. I will start not replying to his texts and being short with him I suppose and see how that goes.

 

If you wanna do it nicely and let him go alone, here's a sure way to do it:

First, pick your nose in front of him. Then, take the pretend substance and pretend eat it. And then say, "Ya know, at night, I like to pick my behind and smell my finger." Smile and then burp and look at him and say "Man, how much would I pay to get the smell of my feet gone".

If that STILL doesn't work. Tell me, I have other ways.

 

i also think that you need to let him know how you are really felling towards any relationship...not just one with him (whether that's just being friends or more). You need to let him know that at this point in your life your not ready for anything, if that is how you feel. if he truly is a good guy he should get it. Maybe he will move on, maybe he wont. i guess some guys are very persistent.

 

perfect, lol.

 

LMAO!!! NOW THIS is good advice minus the burp lol I already do that in front of him. I can burp amazingly loud FYI proud of it im not a girly girl at all, I honestly just think he would laugh ! I might have to be more disgusting