does your other half hate your hobby?? (tank)

Discussion in 'The Bucket' started by Hunt, Dec 8, 2010.

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  1. Hunt

    Hunt Flamingo Tongue

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    starfish2217, ya you should not give up on talking about it if you love the hobby, your other half should try to like it if you do
     
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  2. starfish2217

    starfish2217 Horrid Stonefish

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    Many have been dumped because they weren't even happy that it made me happy they wouldn't even try to understand hahaha. Im hoping one day to find one that at least supports it and hopefully enjoys it even if they dont want to contribute to it.
     
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  3. aw1447

    aw1447 Montipora Capricornis

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    Quit frontin starfish!! You have the snail guy..! and I'm sure like 100 dudes on here that think your quite the "cutie", from what I've read lol
     
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  4. xmetalfan99

    xmetalfan99 Giant Squid

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    My girlfriend loves the hobby and my tank. She is now starting her own this week. However, she hates how much i spend on corals and how i want to get rid of some corals as my tastes change.
     
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  5. ComputerJohn

    ComputerJohn Panda Puffer

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    Good thread.. My girl does like my hobby.. Matter of fact when we were house shopping a couple of years ago, it was with the mind set of where would the tank go.. :D Though when I'm on 3reef she's like "So, you're on that reef porn site again" LOL!!!! Ditto on the cost...
     
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  6. starfish2217

    starfish2217 Horrid Stonefish

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    haaa hea he's 27 and has a kid... and He thinks the world of me.. but he's rushing it hardcore and i can't handle it. Its not even that he's older and has a kid its that he wants me to choose now if I want to commit and I have been on one date. I would have loved it to work out since he's into reefing but I can't handle some of the things he has told me! and yeaaaa all the guys who think im a "cutie" aren't exactly in the state of utah ahahah. Please move here guys ;)
     
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  7. Hunt

    Hunt Flamingo Tongue

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    well i wish you good luck starfish2217, it will happen then you can get a huge take the two of you can keep. or you could have a big one on your own. she does not help with mine, it kind of sucks.
     
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    starfish2217 Horrid Stonefish

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    Thanks! those that have one who is into reefing with them are lucky ducks :) maybe somewhere along the line she will help you out!
     
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  9. aw1447

    aw1447 Montipora Capricornis

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    Lol yeahhhh, the point in the date where the a girl tells me she has a kid, is pretty much the point where I'd say "its nice to meet you, but I don't think this is working out" lol. Plus the 7 year difference haha.. Sounds like you made the right choice. But I thinkkk it's you who needs to do the moving miss, Utah obviouslyyy sucks. haha :)
     
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  10. Hunt

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    ?? mabey,, or she will get sick of it and leave?? she allready says we dont have stuff in commen.
     
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