Allen,
The links birdlady provided are great reading and should help you gain an understanding. (Thinks birdlady)
In the meantime here's a simple answer (that's the kind I like)
Calcium hardness is a term used to describe the calcium content of water. It sounds like you have 2 calcium tests.
IMHO you should not add anymore of the stuff you have until the levels come down to where they registar on the test kits (unless you know what you're doing and have a good reason for doing it). [smiley=laughingsmiley2.gif]
Carbonate hardness (dKH) is a measure of the contribution of carbonate and bicarbonate to total alkalinity.
Calxmax adds both calcium and carbonate alkalinity while
Superbuffer-dKH is simply a pH buffer and alkalinity or carbonate hardness (KH) builder.
I think if you use the CalxMax to get the calcium and dKH where you want it the pH should end up right where it needs to be. With the Superbuffer-dKH you would need just a calcium supplement. You shouldn't need the Superbuffer-dKH and the CalxMax both (assuming a normal bio-load). At least that's my understanding (somebody correct if I'm wrong).
Hope this helps,
Ted