[geekdafied]

That sounds like the american way. Everybody expects instant gratification just like when they go to the store or a fast food restaurant. They want it now, they get it now. That doesnt work when it comes to animals. Animals wheter it be fish/corals, dog or cat. There is a set way of doing things, if you go against it, sometimes you might be ok and nothing major happen, but most of the time its a total loss.

As mentioned before, some people just are not cut out to do this.