While I cannot offer you advise on how to solve your problem, I wanted to tell you that I am sorry for your loss.

Some people don't understand that fish can be just as much of a loving pet to you as a dog or a cat. IMO, you've come to the right place, this is a great site that does include many people with FW knowledge and I'm sure that you'll be receiving lots of help. At the time of your post, many people were at work. Good luck!
Linda